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I had wanted to go to Capetown for a long time, but once I started planning the trip was actually a bit disappointed as the safety concerns there mean you can't really wander and explore as much as I tend to like when I visit a place. We picked the destination because we had booked a deal at a game reserve down on the eastern Cape, and that was quite the experience. So definitely no qualms about the whole trip!

As far as the show, certainly there are explanations for their actions, and I watched a couple weeks ago so was writing a bit from memory but that was what I recall feeling. Still would be happy to hear your explanations. My feelings are mine of course, but you also understand more about the back end.

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Rick Rosenberg's avatar

One more song:

Indian Summer - Beat Happening

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Tim Goodman's avatar

I'm starting to listen to some of the ones I've never heard so this is good (and often I find out I have heard it). In general, everyone's suggestions have created a lovely urgency to create and then update the list in Spotify.

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Paul Costigan's avatar

Spoilt. Love it.

Little slow to the action here, I was combing through a cellar loaded with perfectly stored mouth watering Burgundy, Rhône and Piemonte bottles that demanded prioritization.

This is my favorite kind of post, a free form extra credit writing assignment…evocative of a summer school make up class, where the rules aren’t nearly as strict.

Thanks for the playlist ideas, and the suggestions from everyone else…I’d better try to capture the summer vibe before the first weekend in August where I wonder where did it go?!

Jonathan Richman. How can I condense this in a credible way? My parents were singularly tolerant and open minded when it came to my playing records and listening to unfamiliar music. When Talking Heads 77 was released, the console stereo that anchored the living room was on the fritz, so I hauled my bedroom stereo out into the hallway and excitedly played the album for them and my younger sisters. Tolerated. (I don’t have any friends who can make that claim.) However, the ONLY artist my mother consistently objected to was Jonathan Richman. Anytime she was in the house and I was playing a record of his, she’d insist I turn it off. I would argue for her to just sit down and listen to the lyrics of “Affection”, but to no avail. I could freely listen to all of The Fugs, Richard Pryor, Captain Beefheart and even The Residents records without getting a rise out of her - but Jonathan’s insightful lovely playful songs were like fingernails on a chalkboard for her. Decades later I was at a house party in Oakland that Jonathan also attended so I shared with him my mom’s adamant fixation, which made him laugh and he seemed to take as a badge of honor.

I have completed Season 4 of ‘The Bear’, so seriously, no pressure about launching Spoilt.

Anyway, back to conjuring up that summer vibe…before August is in our laps.

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Paul Costigan's avatar

Absolutely on authenticity. I’ve seen him live wherever I’ve lived.

His often overlooked ‘Jonathan Goes Country’ worms its way into your mind…and the cover is sublime, where he’s being offered a pair of bright red Tony Lama cowboy boots by a countrypolitan slickster, and Jonathan’s mock pensive, debating in his head whether he’s truly that much country.

Probably the most bizarre Jonathan related story was that for a brief period he was being managed by the notorious Phil Kaufman (who was the person who intercepted/stole Gram Parsons’ corpse from the airport and drove it out to Joshua Tree and set it ablaze). In Kaufman’s memoir ‘Road Mangler Deluxe’ he recounts that he afterward held a wake for Gram at his home, where Jonathan and The Modern Lovers were the band that played for those assembled. Just, wow.

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Tim Goodman's avatar

I love this story. It's so funny that she could tolerate so much other stuff but Jonathan Richman (which Substack autocorrects on me every time to either "Richmond" or "Richard" ... and my battles with the editing platform continue.

Jonathan is so much fun and I love that you pointed out that she didn't even want to listen to "Affection," which is just hilariously sweet and earnest.

I was longtime friends with his manager and there are so many great Jonathan stories. But what I try to tell people for perspective is that JR was way more punk rock than so much of punk rock, because he would play his "kiddie" songs at CBGB and shit like that, earning raging ire that he didn't care about. I mean, that's a legend there.

He's also so super outside strange as to be undoubtedly authentic, because he's been that way his whole life.

One year he opened for Wilco at the Greek Theatre in Berkeley -- jam packed house -- and he played 70 percent of the songs in Spanish. I just laughed and laughed because he can not be tamed.

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Sue's avatar

I've told this story before (maybe even here, who knows) but I have a friend who's a concert promoter and has booked Jonathan multiple times, most recently earlier this year. Because JR refuses to carry a cell phone, there is no way to get in touch with him, so someone just has to sit in front of the venue all afternoon waiting for him to arrive. Presumably Tommy, his drummer, doesn't have a phone either. It's incredibly inconvenient for everyone, but I kind of admire it too, you know?

Also, this is the text Jonathan requests that you put in the concert listing: "We still don't use a program or a set list so we don't know what we'll do until we do it. Please do not expect old songs. Many singers my age do a retrospective; this show is not like that. It's mostly stuff made up in the last 3 and 4 years. Some of the songs presented might be in different languages; this is not to be esoteric or clever, it's because the different languages help me express different feelings sometimes. One last thing, my idea of a good show has nothing to do with applause. It's about if all the songs I sang that night were ones that I felt."

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bayareascott's avatar

Last vacation - May (South Africa), next official vacation - probably October (???)

Since you mentioned Families Like Ours again....

I enjoyed it, but couldn't give it the complete rave that you did. There was a point in the middle that I just wasn't buying all the character decisions. It got incredibly convoluted, where the (family) story only happens because of a combination of incredibly unlikely decisions. Laura finally convinces her father to bring his ex with them and he finally gives in, only for her to decline. Then Laura -- the brilliant, Sorbonne admittee -- does all this secret advance planning to be able to accompany her mother at the last minute.....only for her to not do so until the ship is delayed by an hour, and THEN she suddenly takes off to join her mom with the ticket she arranged in advance? And when she misses the ship, she decides on the spur of the moment, to make the stupidest, most thoughtless choice possible? There's zero congruency. So we're supposed to just say she's a young, dumb, and impulsive teenager? A lot of impulsiveness for the sake of drama that was not all that believable. That said, I was entertained by the show, but these thoughts were in my head while watching it.

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Tim Goodman's avatar

I don't have a burning desire to go to South Africa but I'm told it's pretty amazing. I will, however, sing along to Graham Parker singing "Durban Poison."

As for the show, every take is personal and I don't have any argument with how it landed for you. I could gently make a case for why those decisions were made, but I'm not sure that accomplishes much or might sway you, because I'm often the same way -- friends will argue against how I took something and even it if seem plausible or something to consider, I generally side with how it hit me in the first place. So I understand.

Btw, October is arguably the best month to take vacation because in many places it's still beautiful weather, the crowds are gone and all the allure remains. Endorsed! Hell, late September through October is the best time to be in SF.

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Scott Kempf's avatar

Not any official 'cation, but I do plan to get to this:

Exhibition Now Open to the Public

Past as Prologue: The Last Decade of Furniture Design by Ray and Charles Eames (1968–1978) explores the final years of Eames furniture design, capturing how their work evolved to meet the emergent needs of modern workplaces.

Free and open daily, 10am–5pm at the Transamerica Pyramid Annex Gallery, 535 Washington Street, San Francisco.

Runs till Fall, I read.

I still have getting to the Richmond, CA museum on my list. One of these days..

Live to enjoy and enjoy to live, for therefor ergo there go you!

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Tim Goodman's avatar

I'm definitely making it to the Eames exhibit.

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beth marconi's avatar

enjoy your vaca ! i just wanted to say a "thank you" for "Families Like Ours." i LOVED it prob more than anything i've watched recently and have told everyone to watch it but only knew to watch it because of your post on it. it is prob something i would have passed on !?!

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Tim Goodman's avatar

Thank you Beth and I am indeed enjoying the early stages of the vacation. Temperatures are rising but I love that Portland has so much shade/trees and of course the shade of tall building in the Pearl where I live. Excited that you're spreading the word on "Families Like Ours."

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Lynn's avatar

I’m going to Europe soon. Germany. I need some time to spend in a free country. I still watch a little TV abroad but I am taking a true break from social media. I really need that!

The spoiler idea is good! I admit I am very slow getting to TV. I will eventually watch this new season of The Bear. I did want to let everyone know about a good show that’s about a chef. Has anyone watched Carême on Apple TV+? It’s French. About a cook in Paris in the Napoleonic era. Lots of luscious cooking scenes (and sex scenes, hey it’s French!) and political intrigue. It was sumptuous and I really enjoyed it.

Okay here is an eclectic list of summer songs. I could probably come up with more but it was already a lot. High and middle brow. Pop and rock:

Summertime Sadness by Lana Del Rey

Summer Girl by Haim

Rain in the Summertime by The Alarm

Deadbeat Summer by Neon Indian

Summer Babe (Winter Version) by Pavement

Summer Breeze by Seals and Croft

In the Summertime by Mungo Jerry

Cruel Summer by Taylor Swift

Sunshine On My Shoulders by John Denver

Texas Sun by Khruangbin, Leon Bridges

Sun Giant by Fleet Foxes

The Sound of Sunshine by Michael Franti & Spearhead

Sun Is King by Laura Veirs

I will also throw in California Nights by Best Coast. Not strictly summer but California feels like summer to an east coaster like myself!

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Tim Goodman's avatar

Excellent list from the ones I know and will check out the ones I don't. Let's also not forget the Bananarama song "Cruel Summer"!

I'm not sure I can do John Denver, but I can do Summer Breeze as an ode to childhood.

I've got work to do on my list now!

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Lynn's avatar

Yeah John Denver may be the full cheese so that’s an individual decision. You might like some of his lesser known songs like the wintry Aspenglow. But yes, we had a similar musical childhood!

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Rick Rosenberg's avatar

That’s a great one by Lana Del Rey. Patti Smith was doing a fine cover of it on tour last year.

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KB.knows.best's avatar

Lynn, these songs are great!

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Mark Hayes's avatar

"I have said forever that I’m not breaking rocks here."

That's nice, but have you fought the law?

On another note, for some reason over the last couple of months, when a new season of a multi-season series comes out, I've felt the compulsion to re-watch, starting from the beginning.

This time, coincidentally, it's The Bear. I just finished the first season (and two episodes of season 2) last night and. Wow.

That first season was fantastic and I'm foaming at the mouth to revisit season two, one of my all time favorite seasons on television (because Forks, duh).

I went to sleep last night with the last image stuck in my head being Carmy giving the amazing Claire a fake telephone number (Carmy, you IDIOT!)...

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Tim Goodman's avatar

I try to avoid the law. But in the spirit of the Clash (and yes, I know it was a cover), I will add this: "DON'T PUSH US WHILE WE'RE HOT."

(There was a time that ran for a few years when I said that constantly, and now that it's summer and I've mentioned it again, well, here we go).

I still want to rewatch "Mad Men."

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Suzanne Warren's avatar

Oh yes! Please let’s do a Box Set rewatch of Madmen!!

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Mark Hayes's avatar

I do, too but it's a much bigger time commitments than The Bear...

😈

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R S's avatar
5dEdited

Almost eerie the Jonathan Richman reference. I was thinking about "The Beach" recently for the first time in a long time (for no conscious reason).

Otherwise a San Diego Summer (as near-redundant as it is) with tacos, margaritas...some pizza...need to check the schedule to see the next time the Giants are here.

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Tim Goodman's avatar

Had tacos yesterday. Would probably have tacos every day if possible, or if I could survive it.

Are you referencing "The Beach" movie?

And yeah, hasn't it been confirmed the San Diego has the best weather anywhere?

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R S's avatar

Actually his song "The Beach": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TtNU_O36Fk8

I think it's the best weather (shhhhhh) but also the best tacos and margaritas. Please avail yourselves of them after arriving at our conveniently-located airport.

I do have tacos even more often these days. Can't complain.

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Sue's avatar

Love to see a Gen X-coded playlist. I'd add Pavement's "Summer Babe."

Stay cool up there!! I just heard from a friend (another Bay Area to Portland transplant) that it's extremely hot right now. As usual, it's breezy and pleasant here.

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Tim Goodman's avatar

Gotta represent! Maybe it's time to lean into the Gen-X thing. Although I do try to stay ageless and like a ghost.

Yes, it's going to be super hot but as I mentioned above in a different comment I really love living in the Pearl because of its planned-high density building. It provides tons of building shade and every street is tree lined. Heading into many other neighborhoods, particularly on the west side of the Willamette, everything seems very shady and many streets have a canopy. Plus, since it's Portland, there is a place for craft beer every 100 feet.

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Mark Hayes's avatar

I use Duty Watch, too.

The reason that I was convinced that the Delta Breeze was fictional last year was because I moved here from Sausalito (where, if it hit 75, we were dying) on June 15 to a full month of 100+ degree days. No breeze would've helped last year.

And to add insult to injury, my extremely short coated 21.5 lb Standard Dachshund (and who I firmly believe is half Salamander at this point) LOVED it. We still have serious conversations about why being in the loving embrace of the AC is preferable...

Fortunately, I'm much more acclimated now and I notice the Delta Breeze — but it's not making a damned bit of difference right now!

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Joe Lynch's avatar

That first summer I moved to Vacaville from the East Bay was the worst. Took me 25 years to adapt to the valley heat

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Mark Hayes's avatar

As another Bay Area refugee, I'm finding the 100+ degree temperatures here in my new home, Sacramento, to be rather uncivilized.

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Joe Lynch's avatar

Not to mention the filthy smoke drifting down from the North State fires

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Mark Hayes's avatar

Oddly, this is my second summer here and we've only had one day of really bad air quality. At least, according to the AirNow App.

I picked a Dyson Heat+Cold fan with a glass HEPA air purifier built in for my bedroom and it gives me internal air quality numbers on the app. I think that the Delta Breeze (which I was convinced was entirely mythical last year) blows the fire pollution out of Sacramento proper. I'm in Midtown, not far from the Capitol.

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Suzanne Warren's avatar

I have the antidote to the heat wave! Artic Circle! Mentioned on Tim’s last post. I’m starting Season three already (whoa, how did that happen?) and it’s been quite refreshing watching people cavort in snow and ice. It has issues of course but the main character, Nina, is giving me Anna Tov vibes from Fringe and I find it overall entertaining and it has its heart warming moments as well as appropriate carnage. The scenery is spectacular. Weird shit happens a lot but I’m convinced now (as Tim has been saying for some time), that pretty cool stuff is being produced all around the world.

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Mark Hayes's avatar

I"m deep into binging the entirety of The Bear, just finished Season 3 last night...

...on the other hand, a re-watch of Northern Exposure is kind of sounding fun...

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Joe Lynch's avatar

Last year we had a huge break from the fires. Here's hoping this year is as calm.

AirNow is very helpful. Duty Watch is my fire update app of choice to help track down where the smoke is coming from.

Don't ever disparage the mighty Delta Breeze! You'll curse us!

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Wayne Brown's avatar

Hüsker Dü's Celebrated Summer.

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Tim Goodman's avatar

Excellent. Yes.

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Joe Lynch's avatar

Am I the only one not on The Bear bandwagon? I watched the first episode and got a headache by how frantic it was. No thanks.

Summertime Blues might fit your list.

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Tim Goodman's avatar

Oh I think that first episode/early S1 vibe turned a lot of people away, Joe. You’re not alone. I actually started it late for that EXACT reason but really came around to it, before things soured a bit with S3. But back now.

Summertime Blues! Spot on.

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Suzanne Warren's avatar

Yeah, I stopped watching after the first episode. It was too much. I went back to it after reading all the accolades and it’s well worth it.

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Rick Rosenberg's avatar

Great playlist. There's probably a gazillion more to add, but I will throw out two from SF:

Summertime Thing - Chuck Prophet

Hot Fun In the Summertime - Sly and the Family Stone (RIP)

Great film, Worst Person In the World. So much good stuff from Norway, so now that I have seen all 5 seasons, I'm going to give another shout out to Pernille. It's very, very good.

Have a great time in Portland. I'm a little envious of the pizza situation.

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Tim Goodman's avatar

Oh, forgot the pizza situation and to add this: There are SO many places, and I'm really trying to hit all the top ones, highly acclaimed, etc. But now I'm noticing that there are tons of places just making pizza without all the attention and I keep thinking, "Should I try that, too? Is it great? Is it the next gem?" At this rate, I will be enormous. PLUS, I'm really bumping up against my limited knowledge/experience, because I just read some comments about a guy who makes both wood fired pizza and, at a separate FOOD CART, non-wood fired pizza (duh, for safety) and people are raving about the latter even though the former is, as I read this, unbelievable. So now I have two places to visit, from the same pizza guy. Oh, and both of his places are named after Dungeon and Dragons stuff, which is also very Portland to me.

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Mark Hayes's avatar

As time goes on, I realize that when I want pizza I just want a classic NYC style pie with the shit I want on it...

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Rick Rosenberg's avatar

Stop, you’re killing me. There’s some decent pizza in Utrecht but nothing exceptional. I do miss the Cheeseboard in Berkeley.

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Mark Hayes's avatar

I would respectfully add a classic, Eddie Cochran's Summertime Blues (and none of the awful covers, thank you very much).

This Playlist reminds me of one I need to reconstruct (note to self, upgrading both of your laptops and your iPhone at the same time may have, well, consequences). It was called "Have a Little Faith" and it included things like XTC's Dear God, Depeche Mode's Personal Jesus, Green Day's Jesus of Suburbia, etc...

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Tim Goodman's avatar

The Cochran original is the best, no argument here.

I got on the plane Wednesday night only to find that Spotify had taken all of my previous downloaded playlists and, uh, made them undownloaded, except for about 8 of them, all from Spotify, and not from me.

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Mark Hayes's avatar

...the horror...

My music library is ridiculous so most of my Playlist are of music that I actually own...

Carter Family or The Clash, sir? Or perhaps you'd prefer a little Wet Leg, Marianne Faithful or Stone Ponys...

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Tim Goodman's avatar

Going to definitely watch Pernille. Oh and yes, excellent song suggestions. RIP Sly, indeed.

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Rick Rosenberg's avatar

Since it just popped up in a post on Substack, I have to add one more song:

Rhett Miller - Most In The Summertime

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Tim Goodman's avatar

I just read something from him on Substack about his sobriety.

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Rick Rosenberg's avatar

Yeah, that’s the one with the link to the song

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